Focus on Joy.

Angela, in notes to herself:

Really *listen* to her thoughts about things.

Let her know that I want to learn about the world from HER eyes and HER perspective.

Focus on Joy. Really. That's all I need to do right now. It's vacation time in my home...bring on the Joy.

—Angela (NYCitymomx3)

There's a longer list:
Advice to Remember
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