Figuring out how to read

How will they learn to read? In school or out, every child learns to read in his own way, as he figures it out. Different people read different ways. Some are more visual, and some are sounding out letters, and some are reading groups of words. Reading is complex, but teaching rarely helps. Until a child's brain and body are mature in various mysterious ways so that he can process the visual information and connect it to the language inside him in a manner that completes the puzzle for him, he cannot read, whether he's in school or not. Some children are three, some are thirteen, but shame and pressure never help.

Answers to the Most Repeated Unschooling Questions of All Time
photo by Chris Sanders

Emotional well-being

Emotional health and emotional well-being are as important, if not more so, as physical health. —Jenny Cyphers

Moving Toward Less Control, Concerning Food
photo by Janine

Color and form

Look for patterns and unique expressions, all around you. There will be packing materials, automobiles, tea mugs, hats and toys to serve as sculpture and utilitarian design, even if you're stuck at home. Look out your window. Look AT your window.

some other windows
photo by Sandra Dodd

Find wonder where you wander

"Watch and listen to you kids. Let yourself get caught up in what they find wonderful and in the process rediscover wonder itself." —Meredith Novak

SandraDodd.com/wonder
photo by Ester Siroky

Learning without effort

When unschooling is working really well, learning will be happening, for kids and parents, without effort.

The Fabric of Life
photo by Julie D

Calm and patience

Jenny Cyphers wrote, in 2014:

It's such a big part of our culture to get it done now, fix it all now, make it happen now, do, do, do, do. Sometimes what life really requires is calm and patience. A very valuable thing to learn in life is to how to take care of ourselves and others during times of stress and times that aren't ideal and wonderful. —Jenny Cyphers

Moments: Living in moments instead of by whole days
photo by Kinsey Norris

Next week, next year, next century

People DO think of next week. They think of last week. But they're doing their thinking from inside their present selves. Balance depends on the fulcrum. Be solid. Be grounded. Be whole, and be here.

SandraDodd.com/peace/becoming
photo by Sandra Dodd