Sunday, July 20, 2025

Stir up some peace


Sandra Dodd (in 2017—general discussion, not unschooling):
There is a natural need in people to know the "us" and the "them." Those who want an inclusive, multicultural, liberal, accepting life will still have a "them." It's easy to revile "the enemy." It might be impossible NOT to have the idea of "other." But creating a "culture" or nation that is created of a combination of others won't save any individual from their own instincts.

Deb Lewis wrote (in the midst of other things):
You can't clean up a pile of shit by shitting on it.

Sandra Dodd, to that:
The people who are cleaning up can feel hatred for those who keep shitting on it (whatever the "it" is they're cleaning up).
. . . .
Hating those other people makes you hateful.

There isn't a final solution, but there are things to make it (the big pile of shit) worse, and ways to make our own moment in time better. Enough good moments might make a good day. Don't collect shit unless you want a shitty day.

Back to nowadays...
I know it's not the most uplifting quote, but a reminder that negativity is negative might remind parents of children who are still at home to be positively sweet and present. Stir up some peace.

SandraDodd.com/antagonism
photo by Holly Dodd

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