Lots of people go through their whole lives never feeling like they had choices in many many areas of their lives in which they really did. Just like it is useful for unschoolers to drop school language (not use the terms teaching or lessons or curriculum to refer to the natural learning that happens in their families) it is useful to drop the use of "have to's" and replace it with an awareness of choices and options.
How we think—the language we use to think—about what we're doing, matters.
—Pam Sorooshian
photo by Sandra Dodd
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wonderful post/thought. thoughts create reality. this idea needs reminding regularly. thanks for the reminder!
ReplyDeleteI don't think she said "Thoughts create reality" anywhere in there.
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