
People naturally look for similarities, differences, and patterns. We name and categorize. It's a natural part of learning, and it can be fun.
photo by Holly Dodd
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"The big upside of unschooling, in my opinion, was that it also created an unexpected peacefulness, fulfillment, and happiness for all of us."
My attitude continues to make the greatest difference to my happiness. Most of my needs are met in joyfully giving and being with my family. Those that are not met that way, are more able to be met when my daughter and husband are already happy and feeling generous. And if I am feeling like I need a break, I can take one in the space of a breath, a memory, a moment, a hug.
"Be prepared to be flexible and willing to change as your child gets older." —Emily Strength | ![]() |
![]() | Sometimes a heavy thing can seem much lighter if you accept what is, instead of arguing with the air about what you think SHOULD have been. Be a light thing. Rise up. |
The same life can be seen from many different angles.
The same situation can be seen while holding one's breath
and being furious,
or while seeing the alternatives
and finding ways to be grateful,
no matter how small,
because on one small bit of gratitude,
one can step up and see another one,
and another.
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SandraDodd.com/betterpartner
or the same article in German: Bessere Partner werden
(though the quote is from a discussion)
photo by Sandra Dodd (it's a link)
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What can I do now to make this moment better? —Eva Witsel |
![]() | Where learning is concerned, it's never too late and everything counts. |
You get to a place by physically getting there, by emotionally getting there, by mentally getting there.