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Showing posts with label collection. Show all posts
Showing posts with label collection. Show all posts
Wednesday, April 28, 2021
One of the world's finest features
Monday, September 21, 2020
Organizational skills
People survive without being as organized as Tara Joe's kitchen, but it's good to appreciate the artistry of organizational ability.
If you see someone's desk, or sock drawer, or tools, or fruit bowl nicely arranged, maybe mention that you noticed.
photo by Tara Joe Farrell
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Sunday, September 20, 2020
Threads
—Pushpa Ramachandran,
part of Being means being
part of Being means being
Thread literally is a tiny cord, but thread figuratively is a series of connections, and so it comes full circle.
photo by Nina Kvitka
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collection,
colors,
equipment
Wednesday, August 12, 2020
Relax
Sleep When You're Tired
photo by Colleen Prieto
Wednesday, July 29, 2020
Thinking this way or that
I think in words. My husband thinks in patterns. So people think more of emotions or colors, or of biological needs.
When I don't know what something is, I can't think of it in words. Sometimes that will happen—one's usual mode or "setting" isn't available, or isn't working! Think about how you think.
Something can be beautiful even if you don't know what it is.
SandraDodd.com/mystery
photo by Nina Kvitka
Sunday, June 21, 2020
Breathe and smile
Who you are, no one else can be.
Who you are now is not who you were before. Who you are today is not who you will be tomorrow.
Breathe and smile and step toward your future.
photo by Elise Lauterbach ___
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collection,
flora,
forest
Friday, April 24, 2020
Admirable and attractive
Perspectives do change, if people want to learn.
Different perspectives will affect what you respect, too. What is admirable, that you want to head toward? What is attractive, and pulls you nearer? What is disturbing or embarrassing, that you want to step away from?
Getting warm
or to other posts on perspective
photo by Karen James
Thursday, March 19, 2020
First aid for scary, sad days of doubt
I wrote this on March 10, 2000:
Sometimes it's kids, sometimes it's parents.
Let's list ideas for cheering up, and de-funkifying.
I love "breathe."
Whether it's jogging or breath-holding, or laughing, or spinning or meditation—whatever causes a sudden more concentrated and less thought-laden intake of oxygen is relaxing.
I like happy music or funny, familiar movies—the stuff you already know and can put on as background, which reminds you subliminally of more peaceful and carefree days.
I like comfort food, playing with ice cubes, going to the store just to buy something cold (lettuce, apples, ice cream, a small soda for all to share, special juice or fancy tea in a bottle—something cold and soothing, and no doubt this works better in the desert than it might in Minnesota this morning).
Painting—not fancy elaborate painting, but big brush strokes on big scrap paper, or a sign for the dog, or painting on a playhouse outside or something that doesn't involve stress (if it's quickly available).
Mix it up: Wear something you haven't worn for a long time. To assist a kid to do this, get out the off-season clothes and see what's not fitting, or find some funky old thing of yours and see if the kid wants it, or stop at a garage sale and get a t-shirt for a quarter or something. A new color, a new picture, some soft cotton or silk. Marty got a silk shirt at a thrift store the other day for $3. He's thrilled. Wears it like a jacket over t-shirts. Touches the sleeves a lot.
While this stuff is being done/discussed/reviewed, the depressing problem is being dispersed, forgotten, avoided. Next time the depression comes (if it does, if it's a long-term thing) the kid or parent will approach it with a more relaxed mind and calmer body.
More ideas??
. . . .
What works at your house?
Read responses with other ideas here: Conversations with Sandra Dodd
photo by Alex Polikowsky
Sometimes it's kids, sometimes it's parents.
Let's list ideas for cheering up, and de-funkifying.
I love "breathe."
Whether it's jogging or breath-holding, or laughing, or spinning or meditation—whatever causes a sudden more concentrated and less thought-laden intake of oxygen is relaxing.
I like happy music or funny, familiar movies—the stuff you already know and can put on as background, which reminds you subliminally of more peaceful and carefree days.
I like comfort food, playing with ice cubes, going to the store just to buy something cold (lettuce, apples, ice cream, a small soda for all to share, special juice or fancy tea in a bottle—something cold and soothing, and no doubt this works better in the desert than it might in Minnesota this morning).
Painting—not fancy elaborate painting, but big brush strokes on big scrap paper, or a sign for the dog, or painting on a playhouse outside or something that doesn't involve stress (if it's quickly available).
Mix it up: Wear something you haven't worn for a long time. To assist a kid to do this, get out the off-season clothes and see what's not fitting, or find some funky old thing of yours and see if the kid wants it, or stop at a garage sale and get a t-shirt for a quarter or something. A new color, a new picture, some soft cotton or silk. Marty got a silk shirt at a thrift store the other day for $3. He's thrilled. Wears it like a jacket over t-shirts. Touches the sleeves a lot.
While this stuff is being done/discussed/reviewed, the depressing problem is being dispersed, forgotten, avoided. Next time the depression comes (if it does, if it's a long-term thing) the kid or parent will approach it with a more relaxed mind and calmer body.
More ideas??
. . . .
What works at your house?
Read responses with other ideas here: Conversations with Sandra Dodd
photo by Alex Polikowsky
Thursday, February 13, 2020
Approaching solidity
There is a danger when someone's own understanding and practice of unschooling is shaky, and she wants the approval of others more than the solid joyful everyday life of her family. I've seen a few of those.
Another problem comes when someone's reasons for unschooling are not about learning and family relationships, but about being way cool and out there, and cutting edge, and anti-this'n'that. But that sets the stage for lots of problems in insecure people, when they want to glom onto something that's wild and new and shocking.
photo by Alex Polikowsky
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collection,
furnishings,
stuff
Friday, January 24, 2020
Hooks to hang ideas on
You have to know a lot to learn more, and if you know nothing, you can't learn anything. |
photo by Dawn Todd
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collection,
dishes,
stuff,
tools
Friday, December 27, 2019
Warmer and more comfortable
Make conscious choices, in little ways, in ways that make your family warmer and more comfortable. Not a few big decisions, but a hundred of little decisions in the next 20 hours. Tone of voice. Smile/no-smile. Patience/rush. Gentle/jerky.
photo by Jo Fielding
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furnishings
Thursday, October 24, 2019
Alphabetize your shoes
To someone who thought unschooling might be hard because she liked structure:
If you like structure, reorganize your spices, or make a birthday calendar and buy cards for everyone for the coming year and start putting clippings or little stickers inside the envelopes of various individuals. Alphabetize your shoes. Do something that doesn't hinder your kids, to fulfill your need for structure and organization.
That was from 2003. People are less likely now to send clippings, or birthday cards. The principle still holds true, though. 🙂
photo by Manessah Ellender Garcia
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collection,
colors,
furnishings
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Escape, Relaxation, Stories
Escapism isn't a bad thing.
Relaxation is a great thing.
Taking in stories and ideas is a healthy human thing that's been happening since cavemen sat around fires (or since Adam and Eve started comparing notes about what they might've seen or eaten that day, if you prefer that).
I searched for "cavemen" and found
Elvis, Barbie and Rebellion.
The quote above is from "Safe on the Couch"
photo by Jo Isaac
Thursday, June 6, 2019
Images of light
I am grateful to Lisa Jonick for letting me use photos she had taken, over the years, here. Some of my favorite posts have her photos.
I like the matching chickens contrasting beautifully with the green wall, on a snowy day best. You might like others better.
Here they are! Enjoy.
photo by Lisa Jonick
Wednesday, January 9, 2019
Step by step
Schuyler wrote:
I can almost pinpoint the minute when I turned from feeling a need to have my own needs met in a separate but equal kind of way to seeing how being with Simon and Linnaea was meeting my needs in the most involved and deep way....
For me, it was very clearly incremental, it was a step by step building from small changes to a point where I was in a position to find personal fulfilment in being with my children. It wasn't martyrdom, or it didn't feel as though I'd sacrificed myself for their joy. It did help to get the almost kinetic memory of being kind to them, of meeting them where they were instead of expecting them to meet me where I was.
—Schuyler Waynforth
photo by Sandra Dodd
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Monday, October 15, 2018
Sparkly thoughts and moods
Not seem. No pretending.
Not your house. Your thoughts, your interactions, your moods, your responses. Sparkling, like sparkling from one thought to another, connecting a picture with a song with a joke with a movie with a dog.
photo by Colleen Prieto
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figures,
stuff
Tuesday, May 29, 2018
News or nostalgia
Today, something different. It's an invitation to smile, and probably to laugh. I'm sharing my secret stash of favorite cheer-up videos, collected for the days I need them. Dancing babies, mysterious Japanese philosophy, auto-tuned glory, Yoda, and the words of "a desert hobo" might make you think thoughts that remind you of the first time you thought them, or might make you wish this wasn't the first time you had sung along.
SandraDodd.com/fun
Please take some time to share smiles and create memories with a loved one.
Please take some time to share smiles and create memories with a loved one.
Monday, April 23, 2018
Happy and healthy appreciation
If people live wanting what they think they "deserve," they will not be as happy or healthy as if they could live appreciating what they have.
photo by Kelly Halldorson
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Thursday, March 22, 2018
The more you know...
The more you know about something, the more you can know, because there are more and more hooks to hang more information on—more dots to connect. |
photo by Jo Isaac
Sunday, January 21, 2018
"Sculpture" and other words
This photo is from a Chinese Lantern Festival event.
What is a Chinese lantern? What is "a lantern"? These have wire frames with cloth, and electric light inside. There are many other kinds of lanterns, both more traditional and modern.
In Albuquerque, balloonists sometimes get together to inflate their balloons at night. They stay on the ground, and the fire from the hot-air-creating burner will light the huge balloon up from the inside beautifully.
Back to the photo, though. It'a a monkey. It's a Chinese zodiac symbol. Geometry and technology were involved, with some traditional ideas about connecting pieces of cloth to create three-dimensional forms. It is a tool of cultural exchange, of good will, from a country at odds with our own. It is a propaganda monkey, and an art monkey. It was a happy light in darkness.
One thing is many things.
The flow of words
photo by Sandra Dodd, of other people's art
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What is a Chinese lantern? What is "a lantern"? These have wire frames with cloth, and electric light inside. There are many other kinds of lanterns, both more traditional and modern.
In Albuquerque, balloonists sometimes get together to inflate their balloons at night. They stay on the ground, and the fire from the hot-air-creating burner will light the huge balloon up from the inside beautifully.
Back to the photo, though. It'a a monkey. It's a Chinese zodiac symbol. Geometry and technology were involved, with some traditional ideas about connecting pieces of cloth to create three-dimensional forms. It is a tool of cultural exchange, of good will, from a country at odds with our own. It is a propaganda monkey, and an art monkey. It was a happy light in darkness.
One thing is many things.
photo by Sandra Dodd, of other people's art
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