One suggestion for moving toward more peaceful parenting:
Get witnesses.That's one reason people join support groups and confess to their friends what they're doing, because you've told somebody what your intention is.
You've told them what your problem is and what your intention is and now you have witnesses and for some people that helps. Sometimes it needs to be an imaginary witness, sometimes it needs to be a real witness. But maybe, if it will help you, imagine that the friend that you most want to impress is there and would you do it if they were there.
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That was awkwardly worded, and I've added a comma.
ReplyDeleteIt was transcribed from a speech, and on that site you can listen to it, if you want to.