Thoughtful and sweet

What you think you "have to" do makes you powerless and frustrated. What you choose to do is empowering, and should be done thoughtfully and sweetly.

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photo by Sandra Dodd
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Thinking and choosing

If you think of two things and choose the better one, then you've made a choice. If you act without thinking first, you have acted thoughtlessly.

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photo by Sandra Dodd
and it's upside-down, as they were hanging
in a gift shop in Kuranda

A thousand times; better

Saying yes a thousand little times is better for everyone than one big confusing "Yes forever, don't care, OH WAIT! Take it back."

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photo by Chelsea Thurman Artisan

See it more and more

See learning as your priority, and you will begin to see it more and more.

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photo by Sandra Dodd
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"Trying 'no limits'"

Someone wrote:

I see so many families trying 'no limits' and then…

I responded:

Two problems: "trying" and "no limits." If a kid knows the parent is only "trying" something, he will certainly take all he can get, desperately and in a frenzy.

"No limits" is not something any family should believe in, or promise their children The world has limits of all sorts. Parents don't need to add to that, but parents can't guarantee "no limits." They CAN give children lots of choices and options.

Gradual change would have helped.

Saying yes a thousand little times is better for everyone than one big confusing "Yes forever, don't care, OH WAIT! Take it back."

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photo by Sandra Dodd (in Albuquerque)

Thoughtful and sweet

What you think you "have to" do makes you powerless and frustrated. What you choose to do is empowering, and should be done thoughtfully and sweetly.

SandraDodd.com/cairns
photo by Sandra Dodd
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