(The quote isn't there, but similar ideas are!)
photo by Janine
"Unschooling becomes the ultimate challenge against modern selfishness." —Cathy |
My strongly held belief about most things is that no one knows for sure, knowledge grows and changes, but that stress and fear are always harmful.
"I was thinking the other day about husbands and chores and how many people I've heard say that it shouldn't be their job to pick up after their husband. I never thought of picking up my husband's things as being my cleaning up after him—I've only thought of it as cleaning our house. Does it matter whose laundry or dishes they are? Does he shovel only his own side of the driveway and leave me to climb snowbanks to get to my side of the car? Dividing things yours-and-mine, even socks, in one's internal thoughts doesn't seem to add much happiness." —Colleen Prieto |
Different window, different view. Don't forget to look. |
The main idea is about seeing everything we do as a choice.
What locks people in "have to" thinking is they close the doors of choices they will not for various reasons take. They often end up with only one door open and it feels like they have to take it. And they feel trapped.
"It" could be
- home
- life
- your nest
- your children's day
- yourself