Knowing, instead of being told

SandraDodd:
I remember when I was a kid being told repeatedly in school that humans had no instincts left. So why would it even have occurred to me that I would "know" anything like that I was full? Seriously...

But my kids won't eat a single nut more than they actually want. It's stunning, really. It still surprises me.

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Easier to read: SandraDodd.com/instinct
photo by Cátia Maciel (in Morocco, that day)

Gentle touch

When you touch them gently, you're experiencing gentle touch yourself.



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photo by Sandra Dodd
in 2011; info in comments there

Evidence

So what do we need besides seeing things in a new light, trying to be more understanding about noise and mess, and being our children's partners? I mean tools for moving toward being with children in new ways?

Maybe LOVE the mess

See it as evidence of health and joy and learning, and then it's not "mess," it's proof.

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photo by Julie Markovitz

I'm positive!

"Being able to find the wonder in small things contributes to being more positive."

—Marta Venturini

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photo by Sandra Dodd

Gentle Touch

When you touch them gently, you're experiencing gentle touch yourself.



SandraDodd.com/chats/being
photo by Sandra Dodd