If you want to make children do what you want, find out what they want to do and would enjoy doing, and make it seem like you've provided that thing or opportunity, if you want, at first, if it makes you feel like you made the sun come up. But those who insist that they should and can and will control another person often end up alone, emotionally if not physically.
To have a life of learning and joy, spontaneity is more important than control. Acceptance is more valuable than resistance.
but this link will work: SandraDodd.com/control
photo by Sandra Dodd