If you're making a decision in some moment... will you take the low road and have a low-energy, Eeyore moment? How much energy would it take to have a Pooh moment instead, or even a Tigger moment?...
If you were designing a parent for your child, wouldn't "happy" be pretty high on your list?
which links to SandraDodd.com/peace/mama
photo of sunrise in west Texas, December 20, by Sandra Dodd