Sometimes be quiet and wait

Very often parents find themselves in a situation where they might not see a way to make things better, but they could easily make things worse.

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The quote isn't from there, but the information could be helpful.

photo by Sandra Dodd, of rain, in India, on a beautiful surface
with pebbles between some sections, and grass between others

Some road leading somewhere

Deb Lewis wrote:

"Our town is small and we've been to the museums here more than once but we still find new things to do here. A new store opened so we checked it out and talked to the owner. The radio station moved from the residence of the owners to a building downtown and we took a tour. The mom-in-law of my employer got a bunch of fancy chickens and we drove out to see them. She showed Dylan a coffee table book about chickens. She showed us her little sun room where she grows orchids.

"There's always something to do, someone to talk to, some road leading somewhere."



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photo by Sandra Dodd of a road splitting in Owslebury; the left goes to Longfields
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Like your life

Peace can be just contentment—to be happy where you are, to like your life.


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(the quote is from the sound file at the bottom)
photo by Sandra Dodd

All the time

Pam Sorooshian wrote:

Learning happens all the time. The brain never stops working and it is not possible to divide time up into 'learning periods' versus 'non-learning periods.' Everything that goes on around a person, everything they hear, see, touch, smell, and taste, results in learning of some kind.

—Pam Sorooshian

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photo by Sandra Dodd, of a sunrise in Bangalore
with a kite flying (a bird they have there)
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Interesting byways

Ronnie Maier wrote:

What matters is that they are bright, happy, interesting, accomplished, engaged and engaging. Unschooling doesn't only work for kids of "above-average intelligence," or kids whose parents are teachers, or kids who can recite the alphabet while twirling a baton, or any other limiting factor.

Unschooling works because the unschooled individual has the time and support to follow the interesting byways that lead to real learning.

—Ronnie Maier

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photo by Sandra Dodd, of a lost-and-found potato
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Positively better

The second you have a positive attitude, even fleetingly, your life is better, right then.

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photo by Sandra Dodd, a library in Bangalore
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Joyfully health-filled

"It's often more helpful to kids when parents step back from focusing on the kids' health and focus on their own. Focus on being joyfully health-filled rather than grimly health conscious."

—Meredith Novak

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the quote is from the middle of this Always Learning post
photo by Sandra Dodd