"It's wonderful how parenting this way heals parts of our own past unexpectedly."
photo by Jo Isaac
He's confident in his skin, in his mind, and in his being.
He's not afraid of his parents.
He goes to sleep happy and he wakes up glad.
My priorities could have been different.
As we had been talking about natural learning, naturally I responded:
"The power to decide what to learn" makes a pretzel of the straight line between experience and knowing.
My children don't "decide what to learn, how to learn, and when to
learn it."
They learn all the time. They learn from dreams, from
eating, from walking, from singing, from conversations, from watching plants grow and storms roll.
Parents who are unschooling as a whole way of life, can discover what no school can find, and the core aspect of it is the family as a base for learning—for learning about family, for learning about relationships, and resources, money, food and sleep, and learning about laughter.
Unschoolers have found that the very best questions and ideas can arise late at night when other stimuli are dimmed and muted, and the child is peaceful and thoughtful, or in those moments of waking up naturally after a satisfying sleep. |