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SandraDodd.com/gratitudeNo matter where a person is, a step up is a step up. Happier is happier.
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I hate it, and feel like I'm missing out on so many sweet, little moments, but it is so hard for me to be fully present, almost like I can't control it.I responded:
Well don't hate it. Hate's no good. And you can't "control it." It might be easier to see it as a series of choices, with lots of chances to zone out, and lots of opportunities to focus back in.
People zone in and out all the time. It's not a sin. Live lightly. That's good for your children, if you can come back as easily as you slipped momentarily away, and if you're not hardened with self-recrimination and hate.
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Be sweet and soft, for your children.
Breathing.Links to all those things are at SandraDodd.com/struggle
Clarity.
Peace.
Positivity.
Thoughts about doing better.
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Improved is better than failed. Solid and long-lasting is better than painful and disrupted.
Be gentle, be careful, with your thoughts, responses, facial expressions, and touch. Be sweet and soft to your family.
As much as I read,... I seem to slide right back into schoolish ways. How long does it take to really break that bad habit?Forever.
Positive is not being cynical and not being pessimistic and not taking pride in being dark and pissy.Yesterday I added it to my newish page on Positivity. It is the least positive thing on that page. 🙂