Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Learn Nothing Day is nigh

When July 24 begins in your time zone, please attempt to refrain from learning. It's just one day.

If you're new to unschooling, you might think this is easy. But if your life has progressed to the point that learning is woven into all your activities and you've learned to see it, this will take some planning and some effort.

School kids get half the year off, if you add up all the weekends and holidays. Before someone accuses unschoolers of not learning, they might want to know we have ONE day off, and here it comes. Good luck.

SandraDodd.com/learnnothingday
art by Holly Dodd and Sandra Dodd ( details here, from 2008)
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Sunday, July 20, 2014

Habits

When it starts to become a habit for a parent to consider peace, safety, acceptance, choices, service and gratitude in everyday decision making, parenting gradually becomes easier.

six breaker boxes and three electrical meters, jumbly, on a stucco wall

SandraDodd.com/betterpartner
photo by Sandra Dodd

Saturday, July 19, 2014

Get it together!

If watching TV is your child's thing and complaining about TV is your thing, you've spoiled a chance to have a shared thing.
Shared Experieneces are Important
photo by Jackie (Gold Standard) and it's a link

Friday, July 18, 2014

Positively open

colored metal chairs at an outdoor cafe; sign says OPEN
Everyone has the freedom to be negative. Not everyone has thought of good reasons to be more positive.
SandraDodd.com/open
photo by Sandra Dodd
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Thursday, July 17, 2014

Food and dinner


We've never made our kids wait for dinner. If they're hungry, they can snack.



Ideas about Dinner
The image is of a painting by Pierre Mignard in the 1640's
and it's a link.

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Wednesday, July 16, 2014

The talking will start

I can’t predict what will be discussed the next time you set out some engrossing bowl of shells or foreign coins, or a box of buttons, or the antique Tinker Toys you got at the garage sale, but if you sit there long enough, the talking will start and I don’t think you’ll be disappointed. sea shells spread out on a brown table
Leaning on a Truck
photo by Sandra Dodd

Tuesday, July 15, 2014

Help them

Help them have choices.

Help them make choices.
girl looking at a display of small ceramic masks
Sandra, from a talk given in Texas, 2014
photo by Rippy Dusseldorp