"That picture you paint for yourself will get in the way of seeing the whole, real person right in front of you.
"Be precise in the words you use to describe those you love, aim to support and care for. Be as generous as you can too. The clearer you see your child, the better you can respond to their needs. The better you learn to listen to them, see them, and be of useful service to them, the more they will have confidence in your ability to have their best interest in mind."
photo by Sandra Dodd