Some people say "no" before they even think, and then they justify it by all kinds of child-belittling means. You don't have to be one of those people.
photo by by Ashlee Junker (of Marty)
Some people say "no" before they even think, and then they justify it by all kinds of child-belittling means. You don't have to be one of those people.
I don't see them trying to put limits on paper time, or cloth time, or time with other people. I've never heard anyone say "That's enough 'imagination time' now."
Get witnesses.That's one reason people join support groups and confess to their friends what they're doing, because you've told somebody what your intention is.
You've told them what your problem is and what your intention is and now you have witnesses and for some people that helps. Sometimes it needs to be an imaginary witness, sometimes it needs to be a real witness. But maybe, if it will help you, imagine that the friend that you most want to impress is there and would you do it if they were there.