Thursday, February 7, 2019

Older every day


If you're the preferred parent, be there, and ask the second-best parent to do back-up for you, instead of so much direct interaction. Every day, the child is older. Every single day.

Protection and enrichment
photo by Roya Dedeaux

Wednesday, February 6, 2019

Common connection


"I still consider monkey platters the best way to connect kids and teens when they come over and may not have anything in common."
—Leticia King

A Simple Gesture
photo by Martialia Deb Files
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Tuesday, February 5, 2019

Every action, an investment

"Knowing what you know, set your husband and his daughters up for peaceful, calm, successful interactions. Think of every action as an investment."
—Karen James
Actions as investments
or
(Longer original, at Radical Unschooling Info on Facebook)
photo by Chrissy Florence

Monday, February 4, 2019

Request for help

There are over 3,000 posts here now! A few good ones are linked below. If we were all in one place, I would put a jar by the door, or pass the hat. Perhaps there would be cake.

Please help me with expenses....
[that collection is finished now, so I took the links down]



photo (a link) by Holly Dodd

Natural Learning flows
Growth is good.
Changes

Sunday, February 3, 2019

Many gifts

Karen James wrote:

Cultivating an attitude of gratitude for the many gifts in my life has taken me from a place of hopelessness in my mind, to one of abundant possibilities. Because my life *looks* more abundant to me, every moment holds more potential. That doesn't mean my life is all wonderful and easy. It does mean that I have access to more emotional, creative, and intellectual tools to help me move toward the kind of life I want for myself and my family.
—Karen James

SandraDodd.com/gratitude
photo by Amy Milstein

Saturday, February 2, 2019

Fascinating and important

Joyce Fetteroll, responding years ago to someone looking for the educational content in Thomas the Tank Engins:

I think it helps not to see it as educational content, because what he’s getting out of it that’s important to him very likely doesn’t look at all like something taught in school.

He may be absorbing things about relationships, accents, effective story telling techniques, the usefulness of color and so on. All those are really fascinating and important to some people and figure largely in the careers they choose.
—Joyce Fetteroll
SandraDodd.com/peace/newview
photo by Sandra Dodd

Friday, February 1, 2019

A toddler's whim

Dawn Todd wrote:

Whim is such a dismissive word.

A toddler's "whim" is their urge to explore and understand! One of my greatest joys as a parent is being able to facilitate that!
—Dawn Todd

(Original)
photo by Lydia Koltai