I don't think anyone should count, but if they feel like they're in a frenzy of doing too much, then that's too much. And if the mom is feeling like maybe she should do more, then she should do more.
Enough "great" that the mom feels like she provided greatness. And enough happy that the kid felt like it was good, too.
required by the State of New Mexico. YMMV.
photo by Sandra Dodd